Love and Abuse.

I don't understand how people can say they are in love and barely know what the meaning is. How can you say you are in love with someone after one day or even 2 weeks? I want these people (mainly girls) to know that they are only setting themselves up for heartbreak. Girls will go through anything to stay with a guy even if they abuse them just because they think the guy loves them. Why do the girls who think they are in love do everything for a guy who doesn't love them back, or most likely doesn't even care about them or there well being? If someone is hurting you then they obviously don't love you. True men do not abuse girls. No one deserves to punched and pushed around, even if you think they are doing it out of love, they are only doing it out of control and you girls are letting them. Men and women beat on eachother, it's not just one sex but males are more likely to do it..im not sure why but it might have something to do with control. I have noticed every man likes to take control, and when they don't get thier ways they throw a fit, in most cases resulting to abuse. So if you are one of those guys/girls getting abused and think that love will hold you guys together you are very sadly mistaken and need to get help and get away from that person as soon as possible.