Girls. Drama. Jane.

This goes to all you girls out there who don't know how to back up when a guy is with another girl. You need to get a hold of yourself. This is rediculous. Girls are way too obsessive it drives me crazy. This is why i don't like girls. This is why me and other girls don't get along. They are all two-faced bitches (yes, even your bestfriend) I can't stand them. I get along with guys better. They don't tollerate drama. Okay so where this story was originally going was to a woman who i shall leave unnamed for my personal reasons.  Jane (we will call her Jane for the purpose i have stated) does not know how to keep her hands or eyes off of my guy. Yes i would absolutely love to say something to Jane but she just doesn't know how to take a hint. I try to be nice about the way i say things to her but obviously she just isn't going to get it if i don't say something. So im going to let it out right here. Jane (and any other girl who is doing this) needs to get the hell over my man! He dumped you for a reason. Here is the story. They were together. She cheated. He went back multiple times becaust at one time he did love her,  and now she wants him back again but ONLY because she knows she can't have him this time. Rediculous much? You need to get over it. It's your fault he left you in the first place, and honey, he's not coming back! He is MINE and i am HIS. That's just how it's going to be whether you like it or not. Sorry to burst your "i want my family back" bubble but  it's popped. You aren't going to get him back. Don't you think you have hurt him enough in the past? Obviously not, or you wouldn't be trying to ruin something good for him. The point of this, the moment we have all been waiting for is: If you are chasing a guy, and they aren't chasing you back, then stop chasing them 2: If they are in a relationship, and you know this, then leave them alone in thr first place! If they want you then they will let you know. If they constantly tell you to leave them alone, they obviously do not want you. End of story!

Opening up

If you are like me and have blocked your emotions and don't like talking about your feelings with other people then you would know how difficult it is to just change doing that. My friends would rather me tell them what is going on, even if it means an argument just so that they are aware of how i feel and so they know how to talk to me or if they can even help. I would much rather not talk about the situation and let the matters at hand fall on the ground where they are meant to go. My friends, as much as they try, can not do anything about it. They love how i give them advice and that i am a good listener for them but im not sure how i can open myself up to them after shutting them out for so long. I need to figure out a way to be able to open up, but not completely. Just enough so they feel happy with whatever i have to tell them to make them drop the subject. I would like suggestions.. so let me know.

Love and Abuse.

I don't understand how people can say they are in love and barely know what the meaning is. How can you say you are in love with someone after one day or even 2 weeks? I want these people (mainly girls) to know that they are only setting themselves up for heartbreak. Girls will go through anything to stay with a guy even if they abuse them just because they think the guy loves them. Why do the girls who think they are in love do everything for a guy who doesn't love them back, or most likely doesn't even care about them or there well being? If someone is hurting you then they obviously don't love you. True men do not abuse girls. No one deserves to punched and pushed around, even if you think they are doing it out of love, they are only doing it out of control and you girls are letting them. Men and women beat on eachother, it's not just one sex but males are more likely to do it..im not sure why but it might have something to do with control. I have noticed every man likes to take control, and when they don't get thier ways they throw a fit, in most cases resulting to abuse. So if you are one of those guys/girls getting abused and think that love will hold you guys together you are very sadly mistaken and need to get help and get away from that person as soon as possible.

Bad Influence

Has someone ever told you that you can't hangout with thier son/daughter anymore because you act, talk, or dress like a whore? Have you ever been called something you know in your heart that you aren't? Well that happened to me today. Like any other normal day i was trying to find someone to hangout with. Well today my friend told me that she wasn't going to talk to me anymore because she wants to gain her mothers trust back and that i was not helping the situation. So i asked her why her mom didn't approve of me and her mother said that i am growing up too fast, i dress like a whore, i have a bad attitude(fuckin' story of my life), and she doesn't like the way i do my makeup(as if i wear a lot?) I know she wants her moms trust back but she shouldn't believe everything her mom sais, i know people want to believe you can always trust your parents but there's this thing called reality that sais you can't. I have never fealt so insulted by a parent like that before and the fact that my friend would stop talking to me over something that's not true. So to end our conversation i told her "bye. one day you will realize your mom was wrong about me." I wanted to say so much more but i just couldn't. Shit happens and i guess this is one of those things where you just have to accept itt. If you personally know me i want to know what your opinion is: am i a bad influence and why?