Love and Abuse.

I don't understand how people can say they are in love and barely know what the meaning is. How can you say you are in love with someone after one day or even 2 weeks? I want these people (mainly girls) to know that they are only setting themselves up for heartbreak. Girls will go through anything to stay with a guy even if they abuse them just because they think the guy loves them. Why do the girls who think they are in love do everything for a guy who doesn't love them back, or most likely doesn't even care about them or there well being? If someone is hurting you then they obviously don't love you. True men do not abuse girls. No one deserves to punched and pushed around, even if you think they are doing it out of love, they are only doing it out of control and you girls are letting them. Men and women beat on eachother, it's not just one sex but males are more likely to do it..im not sure why but it might have something to do with control. I have noticed every man likes to take control, and when they don't get thier ways they throw a fit, in most cases resulting to abuse. So if you are one of those guys/girls getting abused and think that love will hold you guys together you are very sadly mistaken and need to get help and get away from that person as soon as possible.

Bad Influence

Has someone ever told you that you can't hangout with thier son/daughter anymore because you act, talk, or dress like a whore? Have you ever been called something you know in your heart that you aren't? Well that happened to me today. Like any other normal day i was trying to find someone to hangout with. Well today my friend told me that she wasn't going to talk to me anymore because she wants to gain her mothers trust back and that i was not helping the situation. So i asked her why her mom didn't approve of me and her mother said that i am growing up too fast, i dress like a whore, i have a bad attitude(fuckin' story of my life), and she doesn't like the way i do my makeup(as if i wear a lot?) I know she wants her moms trust back but she shouldn't believe everything her mom sais, i know people want to believe you can always trust your parents but there's this thing called reality that sais you can't. I have never fealt so insulted by a parent like that before and the fact that my friend would stop talking to me over something that's not true. So to end our conversation i told her "bye. one day you will realize your mom was wrong about me." I wanted to say so much more but i just couldn't. Shit happens and i guess this is one of those things where you just have to accept itt. If you personally know me i want to know what your opinion is: am i a bad influence and why?